Thursday, February 5, 2009

Sometimes Mommies need to be people too...

This is one of those posts that when I was in high school I would've just journaled and tucked away in my underwear drawer. But now-a-days I'm not afraid to voice my opinion. I'm willing to share my thoughts.... long or short.

Winter always brings a sense of stir-crazy into our house. The kids need to get outside and play without exerting so much energy just to walk across the 3' deep drifts.
I need the ability to walk outside and clear my mind.
Adam needs the ability to run outside and golf and hunt... and do all the things that cleanse his soul.

And of course, during the winter months is the time that I get to the point of needing a "me" vacation... which is why I write.
Not to rub in the fact that my husband spoils me by letting me go on vacation with my girlfriends. (Although, let's be honest - is it considered spoiling when two people compromise and work together to give each other the space and "breaks" they need to stay sane?)

Anyways, in 14 days from today I will be sitting in an airport at this moment waiting to board a plane to sunny AZ to spend time with good friends. I'll be laughing, sipping margaritas, and reminiscing the good old days. Only to mix those memories with the new ones we will be making.

I'll go back to Raegen - the person, friend, free spirit.
And when I return I'll be Raegen - the mommy, organizer, college student, helper, caretaker, lover.

Both Raegen's are me. Both of them make me happy. But sometimes, during the long, cold winter months I just want to be Raegen the friend in warm places! :)

So raise your imaginary glass to good friends, warm states, and the ability to get away and refresh!

Girls Getaway 2009 - HERE I COME!!!! :)

2 comments:

Hansen Happenings said...

I hope you guys have a blast! I was promised pictures, so... :)

I'll be thinking of you in the warm climate!

Mr.Brian said...

Yeah,and at October fest 2009 you will again be DD because you will be expecting a new arrival.
sure hope i get to see you again before then.You light up a room with your personality.
Glad to have gotten to meet you.
It's me Brian Doc's neighbor.
You just tell him you will drive his sorry ass around too if he plays DJ this year.
Yeah let's start encouraging him to do that.